The reason you chose to get involved in sugar daddy dating is, obviously, because you want to enjoy the benefits of having a relationship with a sugar daddy. The best part is that sugar daddies are aware of this and will not refuse to pay for your time and companionship. But, just how much are they willing to pay? Or, more precisely, how much can you ask in terms of allowance as a sugar baby? How can this be determined and how much is too much?
When you don’t have any experience in this domain, it may be very hard to decide upon this aspect. You want to make sure that you’re not asking for too much or too little. After all, time is money and since you decide to spend it with someone according to their own schedule, you may very well enjoy some benefits. Of course, the best part about dating sugar daddies is that you can choose the sugar daddy you like the most. And you can also set boundaries that will make you feel comfortable. In other words, you can play this game in your own terms. You can do what you like and refuse what you don’t, and be rewarded each time your sugar daddy is happy.
But, let us get back to our subject. How much should or can you ask from your sugar daddy? No matter what kind of information you find online, each situation and relationship are different. So, there isn’t a general recipe that works for all. To request a sum that works for both of you, there are some aspects you need to consider.
• First of all, let us take a look at the “average”
To set an average for a sugar baby allowance is indeed a challenging task. This sum varies based on location and details regarding one’s lifestyle expectations. In other words, if you live in a city where life is expensive, you may be entitled to a larger sum. But, on average, it is possible to say that a sugar baby can get a monthly allowance of $3000. This allowance can come in the form of money, but also as gifts, bills, tuition fees, and so on. Yet again, we are talking about an average, so it is not a standard sum. Usually, the sum is set after a round of negotiations and after both of you agree on the terms for your relationship.
• Make sure you’re rooted in reality
While having a sugar daddy at your side can indeed be a great thing, you should avoid dreaming with your eyes wide open. Such a relationship is not a guarantee that you’ll get access to expensive handbags, designer clothes, luxurious vacations, and fat bank account. The amount of benefits you get from a sugar daddy depends on many factors, including his generosity and the kind of relationship that develops between the two of you. However, you can set a minimum, so you will feel happy each time you will have to skip meeting up with friends or family, for instance, so you can get with your sugar daddy.
So, you may find information regarding the earns of a sugar baby a bit exaggerated on the Internet. Yes, there are professional sugar babies that earn a lot and have a good life, but you won’t see them talking about it online. They are usually saving the money they earn and do their best to invest in their self-development. You should consider doing so as well, as you may earn more in the future if you’re a well-educated and refined sugar baby.
• Never set the allowance based on how much you are worth
There is no such thing as “how much I am worth”. You are priceless and you should not set a price on yourself based on your looks and age. The only factors that should help you set a minimum for your sugar baby allowance should be your goals. How much money do you need to pay your bills, pay tuition fees or taxes for various courses, and enjoy a decent lifestyle? Be honest and realistic about it and ask the sum you need to make your goals part of your reality. If you know what you want and what goals you pursue, you will appear confident and convincing in the eyes of your sugar daddy, who may just give you what you want. If not, you should find a sugar daddy that will accept your request.
• How most sugar daddy offers look like
What you need to understand is that most sugar daddies will accept offering a partial help only, which will take you closer to your goals. So, a sugar baby allowance is not a ticket out of debt and worries. Don’t think that you will never have to work a day in your life because such a plan is not realistic. Yes, a sugar daddy will help you out, from a financial point of view. But, even if he is able to enjoy a lavish life, this doesn’t mean he will offer you a separate lavish life as well. Dating a sugar daddy will make things easier for you, but you will still have to take care of some aspects.
If you like your sugar daddy and you have a great time in his company, then you should go for it, even if the allowance is not as generous as you may have liked. You should appreciate whatever he is willing to give you, especially if he treats you well and there are chances to learn something valuable from him.
• Always make a smart choice
There’s no point in having a luxurious allowance if you don’t enjoy the companionship of your sugar daddy. Even if the mirage of earning more can be alluring, you may end up in a situation that will make you regret the choice you made. So, a higher allowance is not always the best choice, as it may get you in the company of a sugar daddy you don’t like. He may have high hopes or requirements from your side, asking things you may not be willing to offer, in return for his generosity. So, it’s best to choose the sugar daddy that makes you feel great. Having a great time and feeling safe with your sugar daddy is much better than having a bad time for more money.
If you are smart, you will not set your arrangements with sugar daddies based on the available allowance. Spending your time in a pleasant manner and enjoying your life is always a much better option than suffering while having the hope that you’ll get rich someday.
Isabella Hill was an experienced sugar baby. When she was 20 years old, she met her first sugar daddy through a sugar daddy website. She has been in the sugar dating field for more than 7 years. She has extensive experience in managing and maintaining sugar daddy relationship. Today, Isabella is willing to share her experience with more sugar babies so that they can enter this lifestyle faster.